I am particularly sad that the Boy Scouts of American have
just filed for Chapter 11 Bankruptcy protection.
I have always said that the question “Who are you?” will
reveal a great deal about you. When people
say, I’m a Dad, I’m Christian, I’m a
Scout, I’m a first responder, and so forth, I begin to know you. I then have some notion of your values.
I’m am many things.
In the top five answers, I’m a Scout. I
had pleasant recent conversations with Girl Scouts selling their iconic cookies
in front of a grocery store. Together
with their mothers, we had a delightful conversation about how long they have been in Scouting, and the
lifetime commitment it can be. I told
them, I’ve been a Scout for nearly 60 years, and we talked about that, as
parents, as an elder brother and as a beloved sister. The whole Scout movement has – and continued
to make – a difference in our lives. And
that is how it should be. Of course it's not for everyone. There are all kinds of healthy youth activities. There needs to be a variety, because there are ALL KINDS of unhealthy youth activities which compete.
The “allegations” are that the BSA did not pay sufficient attention
to the fact that some adults joined the program at least partially to prey on
young people I resent the fact that law
firms are advertising in THEIR interest to get a piece of the restitution-pie,
but I cannot stop them. And the BSA cannot deny that some number of youth were abused. It happened.
I honestly cannot say how many these prevalent these maggots
were, but I know that they existed. When
I was a council president, one came to my attention. He was an honored volunteer who worked with
children. He had expressed his personal sexuality against Scouts. He ended up serving a prison sentence. Our response: When we found that the allegations were made, he was separated from Scouting, then he was banned forever, stripped any recognition he received, and we encourage counseling for victims and legal representation. We acted
abruptly when we knew to at least close the barn door to prevent future harm.
The BSA has long required two policies: A mandatory “2 volunteer” system and intense
youth protection training.
The 2 volunteer system simply says that no one-on-one
contacts will not occur between youth and adult.
That is a necessary pain-in-the-ass.
The one-on-one leader-scout relationship can be magical. I’ve had numerous ones as a Scout. I can point to people with whom I have them –
men like Johnny Pitcher, B. I. Wixey, Dr. Charles Whitaker, my brother Willard
Elliott, Junior Parks, Amangi-John Saylor, Chris Gore. Steve Gatrell, and a
dozen others – as having a profound effect on my life. None of these guys had anything other than
the solid teachings of Scouting on their minds.
Other than “honor women,” I never learned anything gender-related at their
knee.
But the 2 person contact system lessened drastically the
possibility of “hanky-panky,” by requiring that 2 adults interact with children. I still teach merit badges – and it’s done in
the present of the Scout’s parents or my girlfriend. We may regret it, but that’s the way it
is. I have prosecuted (happily!) people
who have abused children. Yet, the BSA requires that I maintain my thorough
child-safety training current.
I cannot say that child sexual abuse within the BSA never happened. It did.
I can only say that (1) it was RARE, (2) the movement responded quickly
and appropriately when we were advised and (3) as the victims were our brothers
and sisters, they DO deserve love, acceptance, and compensation. That is a part of what it means to be a Scout
and a Scouter.
And we Scouts - together will all of us - can get better.
And we Scouts - together will all of us - can get better.
Mizpah!
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